Best Friends
In my life, i don’t have much best friends although i have so much friends. I’m not really an open person if it comes to personal stuffs, and it’s so damn hard for me to start a conversation with someone i don’t “click” to. But i can be so open easily with the person that i feel so click with me..if you get what i mean…
The funny thing is i rarely spend so much time together..face to face..with my best friends. I think you can count how many times me and my best friends together to have some chit chat or deep conversation..hhmm… i know, it’s a little bit weird didn’t it?! But that’s me! But once i have a chance to meet them, i use it very well J.
For me, to become a best friend, you don’t have to frequently meet your friend, and also you don’t have to frequently text some messages to your friend. It’s the feeling inside that count, you know … that you would never leave each other behind and would never judging each other! And…you need the chemistry..yupe..the chemistry!! I don’t think we can create the chemistry, you can’t lie about chemistry, and you can’t push your self to have a chemistry with someone.Its just there!! If you don’t have the chemistry between you and your friend..then it would be hard for you to become their best friend 
I agree, you dont have to be with your best friend 24/7 for me its that knowledge of them just being there for you if you need them whenever you need them.
hmmm how is that? well I sort of disagree with you. I agree that things inside counts, and chemistry is something that you can not push, however I believe in any kind of relationship, including friendship, you need to put effort in it. You need to invest some of your time for friends. I think it counts for you to text, to call her/him from time to time, to remember her/his birthday, to remember about his/her family, etc. Because that’s what a friend is for. To remind you that you are not alone in this life. I’ve met some people that always called me friend, but they never know what I am doing, they didn’t text me, they didn’t know when is my birthday, what they did is just they contacted me when they needed someone to hear their problems. In my opinion, that’s not a friend. That’s someone who thinks that I am her friend, and she is using me to take things out of her chest.
On top of that, I agree that you can not push someone to be your friends. The right chemistry is needed. It should be from both sides
quality time…not the quantity that counts…
glad to have deep conversation with you…dalam dingin nya udara bandung…walaupun pilek-pilek but I had fun…
seriously….ngga pernah ngerasa sebel kalo sobat sendiri ngga ingat ultah kita? Or someone in the family passed away and dia ngga juga nelpon or gave you support?
Ully, that’s what i meant with “… that you would never leave each other behind….”. True, that it counts for you to text, to call her/him from time to time, to remember her/his birthday, to remember about his/her family, etc. But my point is…you don’t have to frequently meet your friend, and also you don’t have to frequently text some messages to your friend…just like imong said, it’s the quality that counts.
However, thank you for reminding me that the quantity is important too..i get what you meant by that..feels like i’m getting knock on my head but for a good reason
cheers…